"I want an Asian Boyfriend" (Part 2)

Quite frankly, it is easier to establish business relationships between two continents than to find a boyfriend. But, I did accept the challenge in my last blog. So, I initiated the search with general population statistics and arranged according to our interests:

First: ¿where are the Asians?
After reviewing US and world census, I prepared a cute numerical table. But the more I compared the countries the more frustrating it was. So, after deleting my table, this was all that was left, the painful truth (here it goes!): worldwide male population is lower than female. This might as well be one of the most common statements about population.  But after closely looking at the numbers I appreciated this truth yet from another perspective: women’s quality of life in general, but that’s a totally different subject for now.

Male/Female population disproportion

Second: ¿How many women are there? Looking into Latin America’s situation had me on the verge of tears: Argentina, Bolivia, Chile, Colombia, Costa Rica, El Salvador, EEUU, Mexico, Puerto Rico, Uruguay... the female population is higher! Some countries have twice the amount of women than men, and the country that does have male advantage is just a slight one. In other words, the local product –the one you said is no good- is in short supply. If you still doubt it, visit: http://www.geohive.com/earth/pop_gender.aspx. In brief: the supply/demand imbalance is worldwide. These are the facts, let’s keep on with what we have so far.
Third: ¿Where to look?
Well, in China, where else? Seriously, it is the only country with a higher male population, and not even entirely, there are regions that the opposite is true. Here are some other countries with a higher male population, too: Egypt, Iran, Jordan, Korea (just a little higher), New Caledonia (remember Boys over Flower?), Pakistan, Singapore, and (not limited to) United Arab Emirates. In short, your fantasy about the romantic encounter with a gorgeous Asian walking down the streets of San Juan… not happening! Sorry!
Fourth: ¿What can we do?
Go there! Just pay a visit or move to the country of your dreams, it’s the most logical option. This advice may sound rude, seems like saying: “you want a Korean? Well go to Korea!” but it makes sense. Besides, when you really want something, you go for it!
On the other hand, if traveling is not within your means, then internet is a good option, for several reasons:

• To be prepared, maybe, before a trip (learn the language, the traditions, political situation, and such)
• Or to make social connections (groups, pen pals, virtual friends and, finding love interests). There’s countless of groups available through the internet. The dating sites are among the most popular.

Dating sites: are effective,
but...

Recently, I had to admit to my friends (that  insisted for years) that the dating sites are effective. We all know at least one case of virtual love, right? So, out of curiosity -and to get my dear friends off my back–, I signed up to several of them and was surprised with the quick response (probably my pic with a covered eye helped). BUT, once I paid to see who sent the messages, how disappointing! Everyone and their uncle shows up, regardless if they fit your preferences or not. Obviously, I requested Asian men, but my list consisted of every ethnicity (not to mention the untidy and weirdos…) It seemed they ignored, or worse, did not read my profile. Out of 45 messages only one was kind enough to mention my profile (a teacher, of course). I compared the experience with hanging out at a club where you will find all kinds of guys. You get to meet new people, but you can't trust their intentions. Besides, it’s not the place to make simple friends it is exclusively to find a partner, serving it's purpose. For me,  it's  the “lower impact” sites I like, such as: sinoplaybook.com, where Chinese and expats meet, just friendly and non-invasive people.
Finally: local and international resources
The office of International Relations in San Antonio, TX has 8 sister cities in other countries, many in Asia (under a federal program). I just requested some information about social networking with these cities. It seems a great way to meet people that are genuinely interested in the intercultural subject. It’s very different from the “grab and go” mentality of the dating sites. After all, the purpose of my blog is to connect with people that value their heritage as much I value being a Latina. Hopefully, we’ll soon communicate.

In conclusion, it is a fact that women are the majority in the world population, so let’s take the first step. Simply put: if you want fresh baked bread, you go to your neighborhood's bakery, right? The same goes for your loved one: if you want to meet an Asian, go to China. Here’s a video of a new Taiwanese group (Lollipop: “Go Crazy") so can you get start with the Chinese assimilation, as well. Notice the heavy K-pop influence, it is not a coincidence that this style has grown strong in Asia. WHY DO YOU THINK THIS IS??? To attract the ladies, of course! Now, what more do you girls want? These guys are already flirting!

As you well know, your comments are more than welcomed. Tell me about your plans to find an Asian boyfriend. But please, don't live up to those idealistic female characters of Asian dramas or Anime. These are only for entertainment and to feed our fantasy, not for real life situations, ok? Zàijiàn